Advice to one joining the Church from Protestantism

We are converting [to the Orthodox Church] from Protestantism. Our extended family and friends are showing us resistance and want to argue doctrinal issues. ... I would like to have healthy dialogue with others. How should I handle this?
  1. pray for them. They love you and want the best for you, they are worried that you might be leaving Christianity.
  2. don't argue. Few people are convinced because they lose a debate.
  3. listen carefully to their concerns. Give a defence of Orthodoxy if necessary but don't make an attack.
  4. let your life be a witness to them. A tree is known by its fruits. Are you more prayerful, more loving, more humble, more peaceful because of Orthodoxy? Let your actions be your primary witness of your journey.
  5. pray for them. Pray as you love them. Don't pray that you will convert them – only God can convert a heart – but pray for their needs.

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